(Un)Seen: J’s Story

As part of an initiative to build bisexual and pansexual solidarity and visibility, I posted an ongoing call for contributions, asking for your stories of life in the middle of the sexuality spectrum. This story is from J. I’m pansexual, and I’m frustrated. Let me explain. “I don’t mean this to be disrespectful, but is that a…

Musings on Gender

  I’ve been thinking a lot lately about gender, and about how it make sense (or doesn’t) to my own identity.  I accept others’ identification of gender. If you say you are a man, a woman, genderqueer or otherwise non-binary, I have no reason to question that.  But when I’m thinking about myself, I just…